TIPPING VENDORS this subject is sometimes confusing.

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When planning out your event or wedding, be sure to allow an additional amount for tipping. Here is a general idea on the amounts you should set aside for different event & wedding vendors.

Remember, these amounts are not set in stone. Plan according to your budget and the type of service you receive from each.

Caterer and/or Banquet Manager - 15% for extra special service. ·  Bartenders - 15% to 20% of the liquor bill. · 

Event &/or Bridal Consultant - 15% for extra special service. · Powder Room and Coat Room Attendants - 50¢ per guest. You could arrange to pay a flat tipping fee. · 

Clergy members - $20 or more donation, depending on the length of the ceremony. · 

Civil Ceremony Officials - $10 and up. However, look into this first. Some judges cannot accept money. · 

Florist - 15% directly to the driver who delivers the flowers. · Photographer - 10% to 15% for extra special service. · 

Videographer - 10% to 15% for extra special service.

Cake Decorator - 10% to 15% for extra special service, or for a difficult/very large cake. · 

Musicians or D.J. - 15% for extra special service. · 

Limousine or Party Bus Driver - 10% to 15% paid directly to the driver.

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Fees - Clergy

Most clergy do not have a "fee" but instead ask for a donation. In this case, anywhere from $50 - $100 or more. A lot depends on how well you know them and whether or not counseling sessions were involved.  If you are still unsure what the appropriate amount should be - then talk to the church secretary and ask for an "acceptable range" for a donation.

Family Advice From the moment you say yes and accept the ring....  you will receive all types of advice from all directions. You will get lots of great ideas, some better than others, some will make you cringe...... Wedding planning takes time and energy and is very emotional......but one thing to keep in mind; It's your wedding. A flawless wedding is possible all right. It "happens" when the bridal couple knows how to mix practical detail with the emotional insights and special kindnesses that make their wedding memorable for its warmth.  It also helps when you hire a professional with years of experience who can step in and intervene on your behalf when needed.